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ParentsSweet Classroom Celebrations without the Sugar
Are birthday celebrations necessary for the school child? The
short answer is no. Birthday parties add nothing to the curriculum,
and can easily turn into popularity contests with parents and
children working hard to out do each other at subsequent
celebrations. Some would argue that the anticipation of a sugary
treat lowers concentration levels and productivity in the classroom,
the party itself interferes with precious instruction time, and
between the sugar high and adrenaline rush the entire day is mostly
wasted.
On the other hand, some would argue that every child deserves to
celebrate their own special day. Being the center of attention for a
limited amount of time boosts children’s morale, encourages self
confidence and provides a much needed break in the long scholastic
day. Birthday celebrations can brighten up a mundane week, serving
to increase, rather than decrease, productivity in the classroom.
They can encourage classroom unity as all the kids celebrate
together.
Realistically, the physical amount of instruction time lost to a
birthday celebration is minimal. It does not take long to pass out
32 cupcakes, and celebrations are often coupled with planned
recesses or free time periods. Children in preschool or early
elementary school learn about taking turns, respect for others, and
good manners. Upper graders can learn about supply and demand,
planning skills, and treating people with respect. All ages can
practice patience in waiting for the coveted event. Celebrations can
be a useful tool in creating a positive learning environment,
regardless of their relevance to a lesson plan.
While the various aspects of a birthday celebration can be broken
down and debated separately, the fact of the matter is that
birthdays are fun. Parties, no matter how short or what their reason
is, are fun. And anything that makes school a little more fun
excites both students and teachers.
This leads us back to the original problem. Small celebrations, and
occasional parties, may be harmless or even beneficial to students.
But, sugar and artificial coloring and flavorings certainly aren’t
beneficial to anyone. So what’s a parent to do? How can you
celebrate your child’s special day without exciting their taste
buds?
Unfortunately, our society has associated food with fun for so long
that it is difficult to imagine one without the other. Parties=cake.
It’s a simple equation. And yet, there is increasing frustration
with this equation. It’s time to break the mold. The trouble is, no
one wants to start. It’s much easier to follow the trend, wait for
“someone to do something” or grumble about new policies.
So what happens when it’s your child’s special day? What can you do
to help celebrate, if you’re no longer permitted to simply take a
trip to the local bakery?
First off, talk to your child. They may have some great ideas that
you’d never have dreamed of. And if their idea seems a little off
the wall, keep an open mind. It is their day, after all.
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